Midlife Crisis, One More Way to Justify Cheating!

Can You Believe a Woman Actually Wrote This?:
“There is a big difference between women going through menopause and men going through midlife crisis: women are more prepared. We have read about it, talked to our girlfriends, our shrink and are allowed to show and verbalise our emotions. We have a support system in place that [...]

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Discovering You

I’ve been in and out of therapy for many years. I can chalk that up to having a bad childhood. Because of my experiences growing up I have never felt quite right, you know, inside. This not-quite-rightness has resulted in a deep desire to get fixed, hence the therapy. What I was hoping for was [...]

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Trust Your Gut!

We were all born with an inner gauge to help protect us when we are in danger. It’s called an intuition. When we were children we just used it without censor by responding naturally to circumstances that upset us. We didn’t care if anyone saw us crying and we didn’t think about it when someone [...]

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The Gregory Mantell Show — How to Save Your Relationship

Great video about what causes divorce and break ups. They also describe the 4 biggest relationship killers. Very truthful! Enjoy!
from youtube.com posted with vodpod

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Serenity Sunday

Today a Quote on Forgiveness from a book called, “Moving On” by Russell Friedman & John W. James, they also host a grief recovery website.

“Forgiveness is giving up the hope of a different or better yesterday . . .Nonforgiveness is a demand that can never be met. What it means is that you want the [...]

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Is Taking Your Ex Back Ever a Good Idea?

I think popular opinion would dictate that taking back and Ex is NEVER a good idea. I was reading a great post at What’s Love Got to do With it and this really got me thinking. I have never known any couple who have reconciled to stay together. Rather [...]

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Guys, Guys, Guys

Sometimes when I am feeling a little blue I need a little eye candy to perk me up!

I like to look at some guys more than others:

Sometimes I just want to look at a guy who makes me laugh:

Some more than others:

When I was younger I always went for the really good looking guys, but [...]

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Advice From a Can

I’m not sure if you have ever noticed that after a break-up, people, even professional therapists see fit to give you what I like to call canned advice. It’s not new, it’s not Earth shattering and it doesn’t often help. Many times it’ s the same stuff I have been hearing since childhood. When I [...]

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If You’re Angry and You Know it Clap Your Hands!

What to do, what to do?
It’s well over 2 years since the X moved out and I am still getting his mail. Some of it’s important stuff too. When he first left I used to bundle it all up and send it to him at my own expense. Since our divorce, (over a year ago), [...]

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When is Enough, Enough?

Where do you draw the line?
What is your last straw?
How do you know when you have stopped loving someone?
What would it take for you to divorce your spouse?
So, you have finally found “the one“. You date, fall in love and get married. Everything is perfect for awhile, actually a long while before things start to [...]

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