So I’m feeling a little frisky today and decided to post some quotes by Gloria Steinem, we do after all share the same birthday, even though she is older than me I like the pioneer in her, and her dedication to women’s rights. Also, she is not obsessed by dudes or the mistaken belief that being married will somehow blissfully transform her life. Her life has been about her work first, which in my opinion is an admirable quality. So let’s get on with it.
”God may be in the details, but the goddess is in the questions. Once we begin to ask them, there’s no turning back.”
“A woman without a man is like a fish without a bicycle.”
“Most women’s magazines simply try to mold women into bigger and better consumers.”
“Writing is the only thing that, when I do it, I don’t feel I should be doing something else.”
“Without leaps of imagination, or dreaming, we lose the excitement of possibilities. Dreaming, after all, is a form of planning.”
“We’ve begun to raise daughters more like sons… but few have the courage to raise our sons more like our daughters.”
“We need to remember across generations that there is as much to learn as there is to teach.”
“We can tell our values by looking at our checkbook stubs.”
“The future depends entirely on what each of us does every day; a movement is only people moving.”
“The first resistance to social change is to say it’s not necessary.”
“The first problem for all of us, men and women, is not to learn, but to unlearn.”
“It’s an incredible con job when you think about it, to believe something now in exchange for something after death. Even corporations with their reward systems don’t try to make it posthumous.”
“It is more rewarding to watch money change the world than watch it accumulate.”
“If women are supposed to be less rational and more emotional at the beginning of our menstrual cycle when the female hormone is at its lowest level, then why isn’t it logical to say that, in those few days, women behave the most like the way men behave all month long?”
“I have yet to hear a man ask for advice on how to combine marriage and a career.”
“A woman reading Playboy feels a little like a Jew reading a Nazi manual.”
“A pedestal is as much a prison as any small, confined space.”
“Clearly no one knows what leadership has gone undiscovered in women of all races, and in black and other minority men.”
“From pacifist to terrorist, each person condemns violence – and then adds one cherished case in which it may be justified.”
“America is an enormous frosted cupcake in the middle of millions of starving people.”









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Fantastic quotes! I’m going to have to bookmark this and use some of them for my “The Way I See It” section of my blog.
I’ll take all the help and advice I can get on combining marriage and my job. And generally, I think women have better opinions to share on that front.
While I agree that women participating in female objectification is simply silly…men do it to themselves all the time. We don’t all look like Vin Diesel, Bret Farve or George Cluney…but we sure do spend a lot of time trying to believe we do.
While we don’t know what great leadership has already been missed in women and minority men, this year makes me very VERY proud to be a Democrat.
The menstrual-cycle-vs.-male-behavior one made me laugh out loud.
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I met Ms. Steinem once. She’s perhaps the most sensible woman I’ve ever had the great pleasure to hear speak in person.
Of all the things my mom ever did right, it was raise sons who read romance novels, cooked, cried at Hallmark commercials, and generally didn’t perceive the difference between the genders until puberty. She wanted daughters more than anything. She got boys. So she split the difference and made sure her boys liked romantic comedies as much as sports. Well, at least close to as much as we love sports.
We’re both “straight” males who like cars, grease, sports, women, alcohol and doing stupid things because testosterone said so. We also both believe that outside of biology there’s nothing one gender can do that the other can’t do equally well.
I’m 100% sure that Gloria Steinem had more to do with my upbringing then any combination of sports or movie stars.
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Once again, one of my favorites posts in the entire blog-o-sphere. I’ve been thinking about it all day.
Hi Pseudonym! I’m glad you liked the quotes, they are a little out dated, but still many are timeless and we could learn a lot from this woman! Thanks for commenting!
Oh, and feel free to use them for your blog too!
Hi Dead Charming! Your mother sounds like a very forward thinking person and it makes me smile to know that there are men who are open minded and who appreciate women, rather than objectify them. Parents really can teach their children to see the world differently, but it takes more effort than just plopping them down in front of a TV. You are so lucky to have met Gloria Steinem, obviously her influence in your life has had an impact on how you view women and life in general. You are probably in the 1% of men who can see this! Thank you for your thoughtful comment!