Your perception is your reality!
Remember when you were a child, before you had a ton of heartbreaks? You went into relationships without judgment and then slowly over the years you got your heart broken. With each heartbreak you put up a wall and then another until you found yourself walking around thinking that maybe relationships were not so fulfilling, not so rewarding, not what you had hoped. Maybe you experienced heartbreak in friendships as well. People did not live up to your expectations and you felt betrayed.
This doesn’t happen to you alone, so it must be universal. I read somewhere that the only constant in life is change. I think change keeps life interesting, but sometimes we change so much we lose touch with who we really are inside. We lose belief in ourselves and in others, rather than seeing our lives as a journey we cloak ourselves in despair, (well some of us do), and then we find it very difficult to find love. But love is out there, its just that the more you work on yourself the more you see yourself clearly, the more you know what you want, you begin to narrow down who you want in a partner and it seems like you will never find the one for you.
I say, look at it the other way! Believe that person is out there and you just haven’t met them yet. During this time that you are single you can take a rest from worrying about it and know that it will happen and it will. In the meantime have fun do what you love and the perfect person will show up!
I leave you with this quote, author unknown:
We share this world.
Through creativity we open our eyes and we are free.
It’s all about letting go.
Opening your heart.